Writing the Personal Story: We buy toys, games, clothes, and sports gear -- and present these as gifts to one another. But how much more treasured are the gifts of written down impressions, word pictures, smells, sounds, conversations, and details; in other words, saved memories.

Innovations in personal story "writing"

If you're not a writer, try these mediums for collecting and saving memories:

  • quilts
  • travel albums
  • Christmas letters
  • history of cars you've owned
  • timeline of major life experiences
  • scrapbooking
  • digitized photos with dates and captions
  • website
  • video or powerpoint presentation or DVD

Memory-primers for writing snap shots

  • My favorite school teacher/pet/grandparent. . .
  • My parents expected me to (behavior, chores, work, school, church). .
  • The roughest/best time for me growing up was . . .
  • Our family was alike/different from other families in that . . .
  • My favorite holiday was. . .because. . . .
  • I lived in a town that was . . .in a house that was
  • As a teenager, I was . . .
  • An event that rewrote my life was (relocation/adventure/illness/disaster)
  • My first job was . . .and a typical day at work was . . .
  • Something I'll never forget is. . ..

Where do I begin?

  • Read personal stories: what holds your interest? What bores you?
  • Go through saved letters, news clippings, and photos.
  • Interview family members for facts and feelings.
  • Search websites for history, setting, maps related to your past.
  • Re-visit the setting of your personal story.
  • Talk into a recorder while looking at photos and transcribe later.

Nuts and Bolts of Personal Story-writing

  • 5 Senses
  • Specific over General
  • Facts AND Feelings
  • Visual
  • Humor
  • Leads and suspense
  • Setting
3 Boys Book

The Three Boys provides and portrays a prototype for your personal story-writing.

  • Introduces the main characters with photos, nick-names, and descriptions
  • Introduces the setting with photos and descriptions
  • Uses themes to collect anecdotes into mini-stories, i.e. Thanksgiving, cars, music, sports.
  • Adds clip-art and items of interest: family recipes